My dauthers father want me 2 live with him! help?

I have 2 kids by 2 different guys.... my daughter is 2 and my son is 3 weeks....my daughters father is a sweet heart but got his cheating ways...my sons father betrayed me left me for his other baby mother....so ever since I was pregnant wit my son my daughters father asked me to move wit him to miami cuz he's ready to settle down and he doesn't mind taking care my new baby...now my sons father don't want me go I don't kno wy??? But im ready 2 settle down and im willing to go to miami...the thing is I don't wanna go and he really didn't change! I don't know what to do cuz these past months it seems like he has.....help he wants me 2 go in june!My dauthers father want me 2 live with him! help?
I believe people do change and grow up im not going to say all guys but most guys take a little longer to grow up you live once take the chance but as you take the chance have a back up plan....save money just in case he decides to get brand new or pick up his old ways at least you'll have something to fall back on and as far as your sons father he just want to to stay close so he can go back and forth between you and the other BM. Do whats best for you and your kids.My dauthers father want me 2 live with him! help?
i would say to him that i am fine living with my self and that i want to spend time with me and the baby alone!
i don't think you should go with him, especially since he cheated on you before! odds are he will cheat again, :/ good luck!My dauthers father want me 2 live with him! help?
He'll change his mind before then, you have nothing to worry about. Baby(daughters daddy) is lonely, but in a month he'll find somthing else and youll be out of the picture for sure.
ok what i'm wondering is why did you say "my daughter's father" instead of just "ex"



(meaning ex-husband. unless you didn't marry but then I wouldn't be blaming him if he's cheating cuz you're not married anyway)My dauthers father want me 2 live with him! help?
tell no be a independent woman
why don't you get married first.



looks like you like to put the cart before the horse... over and over again. how many kids do you have to have with how many fathers before you grow up..... or are you just going to hop from one guy to the next having more and more babies???



tell this cheating jerk that if he wants to commit to you he can get married or go find someone else to cheat on!!!!!!!!!!!!
1. he's a cheater 2. you don't want to go



seems pretty clear to me... don't go. tell him "sorry I don't want to move that far away" or whatever.
only one way to find out.......go! how can he prove himself if you don't give him a chance? if it doesn't work out, you've lost nothing really, but you will have learned a lesson.
I say give him a chance you never know if he changed, But its only if your ready to really settle down. There are a lot of men out there that take care of kids that are not theirs, which is a good thing. But only do it if you really want to and you know deep down in your heart that's what you want, then maybe you guys can get married. Good luck and i hope that everything works good the way you want it. Congrats on the new baby!