What to do in this situation?

me and my man just started dating about 2 months ago and he keeps me home like i dont belong outside in the open world. he wont let me go the beach with a friend form work or let me go to miami with my family. why is he acting like that? is because he is afraid that im going to find someone else or is he just insucure? i told him that if i wanted to cheat on him then i would do it. now he is saying that i can go the beach but not to miami. if you trust me to go the beach why not miami? the same thing you think that i would do in miami the same thing i would do at the beach. please helpme to realize why he is treating me this way?What to do in this situation?
he is treating you this way because Miami is the place to go to get wild and party hard so he is afraid while in Miami you will do you know what with other guys and the chances are he wouldn't find out so he doesn't want you go at all. which i think is rude because you know yourself better than he knows you and your relationship is not going to work if he doesn't trust you, it also wont work out if he doesn't want you going anywhere! you need to talk to him tell him how you feel, tell him "I am going to Miami with my family and im not your property" then pause and say "if i wanna go somewhere with my friends or family im gonna go" then take another breath and say "this relationship Will never work if you don't have trust in me!" and you should be able to take it from here, I HOPE I HELPED!What to do in this situation?
He is controlling and this is just the start of abuse. Get out while you can.



No man is worth your freedom and your dignity.
To look at this in a more positive way. I am sure you have a lot of things going for you. Why do you need someone you have just started DATING, 2 months ago, that is only 60 days; telling you what you can and can't do? What makes you think that is okay? You said dating, so that means you are just going out with this person, feeling out whether this is the person for you or not, well my suggestion is NOT.

It really doesn't sound like a good situation you have gotten yourself into. I really hope you get out of this relationship asap, and without any harm to you. He doesn't sound like a mentally stable person. If you don't see something wrong with the situation you're in then there is something mentally wrong with you as well.What to do in this situation?
It is called control. Chances are you may soon end up as a statistic in a hospital of morgue.
Maybe he has been in a similar situation and the girl broke his heart. you let him know you wont do anything to hurt him if he just gives you some space. thats important in a relationship.What to do in this situation?
He's far too controlling and possessive--walk away now before it gets any worse. Trust me, I've been there and it gets worse, not better. He has issues and there's nothing you can do to change him.
The question is: WHY ARE YOU WILLING TO PUT UP WITH IT??? You sound like a big fool to us! Were you looking for a boyfriend or a new DADDY TO TELL YOU WHAT TO DO?
honey he is not ur parent he is ur man not ur dad
Maybe there is some insecurity within him. You shouldn't have to change you or your personality to be with a man dear. If this is his normal personality, RUN! If not, think about how you met, and if there was some reason for him to doubt you int he beginning, because if he doesn't trust you, he really doesn't love you.
dump him now. you'll feel free to do as you please. no worries.
I say get out of the relationship before he starts beating you and making you call him master...



what a psycho...
Let him go..once a guy knows he can control you in anyway he will take advantage of it and control more and more and then its even out of his control !! Let the dude go its not worth someone being like that you in your life..good luck
He is possessive and jealous, as many men are. You won't be able to change him, so if it's OK with you, enjoy it, if this is a big problem, send him on his way. May be if you threaten to leave him, he would compromise, but it will be a fight each and every time.
Leave the guy. If he is this controlling and you only been together for 2 months it will only get worse. If he will not let you go with family that is a control factor.



I hope you can fix the situation. Good Luck
leave him
This man wants to control your life.



Do you want him to control your life, and tell you what you can and can't do?



If the answer is "No," dump him, and look for a better man.
He is a control freak and you are stupid if you stay with him. Two months and he's "keeping you at home"?!! Please.
It sounds like your man is very possessive and controlling. One thing you must remember is your life is your life and you can do whatever you want. You need to leave him and find someone who trusts you because it will only get worse if you stay. He will be manipulative and try to make it seem like you did something wrong when in fact you did nothing. For your own happiness I suggest you leave him. Most of the time guys like that don't change.



I dated someone just like that.